How to Tame Your Inner Critic, Why All Parts are Welcome, and How to Resolve Conflict in Your Relationships
Episode Notes
Today, I am joined by my friend and co-author of Boundaries for Your Soul, Kimberly Miller, to discuss the almighty inner critic, how to get space from it, and how to bring this work into your relationships.
Kim describes how she first encountered Internal Family Systems (IFS) and how combining it with Christian faith and practice changed her life.
Here's what we cover:
1. How Kim finally healed the ache in her heart
2. The most ubiquitous part of the soul
3. Why self-acceptance is better than self-condemnation
4. How to differentiate from painful emotions
5. A real-time exercise for quieting your inner critic
6. How this work translates into marriage
Connect with Kimberly Miller at kimberlyjunemiller.com or on Insight Timer
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Music by Andy Luiten
Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik
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Resources
- Connect with Kimberly at kimberlyjunemiller.com
- Click here to get 3 free Boundaries for Your Soul resources
- Get 46% off Boundaries for Your Soul & The Best of You
- Inside Out Movie Trailer
- IFS Institute
- Find a Christian IFS Therapist
- Guided IFS Reflections:
- Insight Timer - KimberlyMiller
- Insight Timer - Ann-Marie Bowen
- John 10:10
- Psalm 23:5
- Psalm 139:16
- Revelations 12:10
- Luke 15:4
- Isaiah 55:6-7
- Matt. 11:28-30
- Boundaries for Your Soul, by Kimberly Miller & Dr. Alison Cook
- Renovation of the Heart, by Dallas Willard
- Hearing God, by Dallas Willard
- The Soul of Shame, by Dr. Curt Thompson
- LeAnne Payne
- Leading Wholeheartedly
- EMDR
- DBT
- Michi Rose - Table Technique
Quote: "The wildness is gentled out of a personality at war with itself." Disciplines of the Spirit by Howard ThurmanOther Episodes in this Series:
- Episode 39 Boundaries for Your Soul-How to Navigate Your Overwhelming Thoughts & Feelings
- Episode 40 5 Steps to Healing Painful Emotions & Why Parts of Us Get Stuck in the Past
- Episode 41 Boundaries With Fear And Anxiety-How to Calm the Chaos Within and the Joy of Internal Boundaries
- Episode 42 How to Honor Sadness, Set Boundaries with Loneliness, and What to Do When You Don't Have Time for this Work
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